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  • Resistance

    November 3, 2020 by

    My partner and I have gone through a lot in our personal lives the past few weeks. One after the other, everything seems to be breaking down around us as we hold onto each other for safety and reassurance. Between work, family, looking for a lost pet, and the fucking election, life does not feel fair right now. I feel sick from anxiety. I find myself wondering what else could go wrong in a time when I want to be able to focus all of my attention on the state… Read more

  • Closing a Chapter

    July 23, 2020 by

    Is it too cliche to say “all good things must come to an end?” Or is it just a little stuffy? Anyhow, the time has come for me to move on from this blog. This platform has meant the world to me. It has been a space for me to process my thoughts on being queer in the Church, and it has helped others put words to feelings in regards to their relationship with modern Christianity. I have met people from all over the world via this blog, and I… Read more


    July 3, 2020 by

    It has been a long time, hasn’t it? The last time I shared my writing, I was commenting on how Pete Buttigieg doesn’t represent the entire queer community. How times have changed in just four months. This post is going to be short and sweet. It’s just an update on where I’ve been, why I’ve been absent from this platform, and where this is all going. Long story short: Well, not a Christian by the definition that most understand. To understand what I’m going to say, we need to use… Read more

  • Grading Mayor Pete’s Queer Card

    February 28, 2020 by

    I want to talk about this whole “is Pete Buttigieg gay enough” situation. I keep seeing lots of commotion on Twitter about folks arguing back and forth on Mayor Pete’s presentation of his own queerness and whether his flavor of gay is helpful or harmful to the wider LGBTQ+ community. This is a loaded topic, so let’s break it down a bit. The Queer Card First of all, is anyone “too queer” or “not queer enough?” The answer to that is a hardy “no.” When we talk about queer identities,… Read more

  • Theology is an Idol

    February 13, 2020 by

    Sometimes Christians are confused about who they worship. It’s easy to get mixed up and begin to follow Theology rather than following God. Sometimes it’s easy to believe that Theology is unchanging and cannot be touched and that it must be preserved at all costs. We treat Theology like a porcelain doll in a stuffy attic full of family heirlooms, never to be altered or questioned, forever preserved under centuries of dust and debris. The reality is that Theology changes all the time- or at least it probably should. Broken… Read more

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